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  never do the chase. If you like a man,admire him,compliment him,but don't do the chase. Relationship is best when the man wants you and makes the move to win you over. 2;Never pretend to be who you are not to secure a relationship, relationships built on pretence and lies can be frustrating. 3;never leave anything to assumption,ask him what his intentions are. 4;don't be scared to ask personal questions at the right time,ask about his source of income,sexual orientation,health,family, belief... 5;never choose sides when he is having disagreement with his family,be neutral. 6;never get too comfortable with his friends. They are his friends not yours remember. 7;Never compare your man to other guys,it makes him question your loyalty. 8;never depend entirely on your man,it reduces your self worth. It is best if a woman has some form of independence or makes little contribution towards their relationship growth and upkeep.
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DONT TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE

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  If you try to make everyone happy, you will lose yourself in the process. You’ll get tired, drained, and frustrated, because no matter how hard you try, you can’t please everyone. The truth is this: not everyone will like you, and that’s not a weakness—it’s life. People see the world through their own experiences, and their opinions don’t define your worth. The moment you stop living for applause and start living in truth, you gain peace. You don’t need approval from everyone to be enough. Be kind, be respectful, but most importantly—be yourself. Protect your energy. Choose authenticity over acceptance. The right people will always find you. 💛
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YOU ARE ENOUGH

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You’re Not Behind. You’re Becoming. There are days you wake up tired—not because you didn’t sleep, but because life feels heavy. You scroll, you compare, you wonder why everyone else seems to be winning while you’re still “figuring it out.” Let me say this clearly: nothing is wrong with you. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re not late. You’re growing in a season that doesn’t get applause. Most people only post the glow, not the process. The smiles, not the silent tears. The results, not the nights they almost gave up. And when you don’t see the full picture, you start blaming yourself. But here’s the truth that changes everything: Progress doesn’t always look like progress. Sometimes it looks like rest. Sometimes it looks like confusion. Sometimes it looks like trying again after breaking down. If today all you could do was show up, breathe, and keep going—that counts. If you’re healing instead of hustling—that counts. If you’re choosing yourself over...
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